Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Third Wheel

This post is from my guest blogger who opted to remain anonymous. I like it so much how words had been put together in this very well-written piece. Enjoy reading.


   "I work in company where the operating hours or the working hours are different from your typical work schedule. At work most of the employees are either committed or married. Well you would ask, what is the problem here. The problem is because we work in a very different operating hours, we usually spend more time with our co-workers than with our partners. Because of this, a lot of temptations would arise. Some would entertain it, some would just brush it of. This is a very common scenario and these types of talks is as common as taking your coffee in the morning (evening if you are in the graveyard shift). My question then is this. Why do we become unfaithful with our partners? Personally, one reason that I can see ( it is not that I'm justifying the act, I'm just trying to make some sense out of it) is that since we work in a very populated company, we will be able to meet a lot of people with different personalities. And since we spend more time with our officemates, it is here where we start (unconsciously) comparing them with what we currently have. We will then realize that our relationship is not perfect. Well, who has one, right? The only problem is when we start to crave for something that we currently do not have. If only others would also think that you also have something that they don't, only then you will begin to appreciate what you have and not desire what you don't. Basically, what I'm trying to say here is, no one has the perfect relationship. It is always a work in progress. You would only start having discontentment if only see what you do not have. Learn to appreciate what you have and you will realize that others will also want what you have. As long as it is not you they want, that's perfectly normal. Hope I helped you in anyway. Thanks for taking the time reading. c",)"


Yey there you have it. Thank you again for this post you-know-who-you-are. And let me say this... MORE please.

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